Different Types of Lubes for Women: Oil, Water, and Silicone-Based

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We spend a lot of time thinking about the details of lovemaking – who, what, when, where, and how – but we might not think much about the mechanics of it. One of those things you might not have thought about is vaginal lubricants: why do we need them, what kinds there are, and which one is the best lubricant for women with different sexual needs?

When to Use Lube for Vaginal Dryness

One of the first things that happens when a woman gets aroused is natural lubrication. This lubrication, produced by the vagina, helps during lovemaking. However, the amount produced is not always the same and can vary according to:

  • Where the woman is in her menstrual cycle: The amount of natural lubrication is linked to estrogen levels, which fluctuate throughout the menstrual cycle. It tends to be the highest around ovulation when estrogen levels peak.
  • Age: Women who have gone through menopause may take longer to become aroused, leading to a delayed onset of vaginal lubrication. Additionally, postmenopausal women typically produce less lubrication due to decreased estrogen levels or its absence altogether.
  • Stress levels: High levels of stress, whether stemming from relationships, work, or other sources, can decrease libido, focus, or blood flow, hindering the body’s ability to produce vaginal moisture.
  • Health status: Certain health conditions, such as cancer (and its treatments like chemotherapy and radiation), diabetes, and Sjogren’s syndrome (a condition causing dryness in body membranes), can contribute to vaginal dryness.
  • Medications: Some medications, including certain allergy and cold remedies and antidepressants, can have drying effects on mucous membranes, potentially reducing vaginal lubrication.

But female lubricants aren’t just for addressing vaginal dryness – they’re also fun! Lubes can be used in conjunction with vaginal moisturizers to enhance pleasure on demand.

Exploring Different Vaginal Lubricants

There are three main types of lubricants: oil-based, water-based, and silicone-based. However, the best lubricant for women depends on their needs. Here’s a breakdown of what each kind offers.

Oil-Based Lubricants

In addition to being common household items, baby oil, mineral oils, petroleum jellies, and hand creams share another characteristic: they’re all oil-based lubricants. These lubricants, made from natural plant oils and other sources, offer longer-lasting lubrication compared to water-based alternatives. They can moisturize dry tissues, enhancing comfort during sex. However, they only address surface dryness and may trap bacteria, potentially leading to infections.

Despite being versatile for sensual massages and covering more surface area due to easy spreading, oil-based lubricants present challenges in cleaning sex toys and can degrade latex condoms, increasing the risk of breakage.

Water-Based Lubricants

Water-based lubes are widely popular for their versatility and gentle nature. Specifically formulated types mimic fertile cervical mucus, reducing the risk of skin irritation and maintaining a natural feel, ideal for various sexual activities. Derived from natural thickeners like xanthan gum or agar-agar, these lubricants offer a smooth texture and minimal chemical content, ensuring comfort during use. Additionally, they are easy to clean, ensuring surfaces remain mess-free and simplifying the process of cleaning sex toys. However, they tend to dry out quickly, especially during activities involving prolonged friction, thus requiring frequent reapplication.

Silicone-Based Lubricants

Silicone-based lubricants offer extended durability compared to water-based options and are generally safe for use with condoms. They are nonirritating and formulated to remain slick for longer durations, reducing the need for frequent reapplication. These lubricants maintain their effectiveness in wet environments such as saunas, tubs, or showers, although caution is advised due to the increased risk of slips.

Cleaning them off may be more challenging, often requiring soap and water, and they may occasionally stain sheets. It’s important to note that silicone-based lubes should not be used with silicone-based sex toys, as they can degrade the material over time. Nonetheless, they are compatible with toys made from other materials like hard plastic and glass.

Best Lube for Vaginal Dryness

In conclusion, when selecting a lubricant, prioritize one that is gentle on your skin and provides long-lasting lubrication. Experimenting with different varieties can help you find the best fit for your needs. Replens Silky Smooth Personal Lubricant offers a premium silicone option for women, enhancing comfort and ease during intimate moments. With its moisturizing properties and compatibility with various condoms, it provides a smooth and natural feeling experience. Remember to apply a small amount for optimal results and enjoy the enhanced pleasure it brings to your intimate encounters.

Dr. Joanna Ellington (Dr. E) discusses real life issues at her informative blog Sex, Science and Nature. She is an internationally recognized scientist in the area of Sperm Physiology. During her National Institute of Health-funded research into what makes healthy sperm, Dr. Ellington realized that many couples were using lubricants that killed sperm. Dr. Ellington's research led her to invent Pre-Seed's patented "fertility-friendly" lubricant formula that is clinically shown to be safe for couples trying to conceive. Chat with us on Facebook, Twitter and Google+